be careful with him , maybe he is playing you , i got a long story but am cuttin itt short, i met my cap man ,we beganning see each other almost everyday then a month later i go to the club he pretends he dont know me and walks past me, mad at me, he went to the back , and was dancing with some other the whle night as i sat alone ,then he left with the girl and u know .. so i left with a guy that was there for me, when he wasnt , anyways turns out he was playing me for 2 months okay , i sinced somethign not right but i saw for my self that night when he left with the girl but he wanted me still ofcourse, next thing im pregnate with his kid . my so called bf . then he denying him the whole time. anyways , he went out 1 night he was suppose to come to my house but he he was at the bar drinking ,ok fine then later he went to the club he wouldnt pick up the phone, we were fightin, i found out he went to da club cause i found a paper braclet and confronted him ,he wouldnt have said nothin, then i see a new girls name in his phone . i erased that , he didnt come to my house till 4 i n the morning , i went to his house the next day , i saw a condum in the bathroom trash , he said it was his roomates . he had 2 guys livin with him, but i dont believe him cause he had a stack of condoms and we didnt use them at the time .he says they for when after i have da baby so i dont get pregnate , but we never used them i bought new ones now , i dont believe his story about how the girl was just a old friend and he took her # cause she offered . it to stay in touch okay will we been together for over a year , we got our baby , which i did a paternity test for because he was dening his son,i payed todo it cause i couldnt take it no more ,him acting crazy, throwning think , breaking things, after my csection he even pushed me and bent my hands cAuse we were fighting ,ofcourse i him him back, he also ripped my other kids pictures n my baby pictures n stuff ... so after i proved he was his father he stopped actin crazy for a bit ... then we fight alot , he gets mad , he is so insulting , i can also be the same way, i block the door, i tell him, i with his kid all week , he need to watch it to , i tired but he tries to leave i block the dr , he punches da door alot, then he throws somethine ,i still not scared , he punches me inmy knee, left a nice big bruise , so i punch him alot of times ,push him , punch his balls, he takes it cause he know he wrong , anyways i dont let him by still ,he gives up , then maybe 1/2 hour later he leaves ,i call he dont pick up, i leave with my kids , take them out , come back he not there, i call alot of times he wont pick up, he comes at 12am drunk ,then i mad he leaves again ,i call he wont pick up ,he comes at 5am , i mad cause he dont pick up n i with our baby all week n weekend again, while hes out n i home on da weekend, so i slap him in the face cause he comes at 5am drunk n dont pick up da phone n had me worried ,he leaves again n dont come back to 1am da next day i said, where were u, he say nextdoor at his friend house that he was drinking with all night , he didnt bring his phone so i couldnt call him , i dont belive he was just drinkin with his friend at the bar n there house , all this time ..he tells me he is not cheating n he says i need to believe him i told him i will pay for a lie detector teat he says no , only if we get married then he will do it but he want me to believe him hewont do it right now but i want him to. for my own sanity ,it could sAVE OR BREAK UP DA RELATIONSHIP , I WANT THE TRUTH I HAVE ALOT OF QUESTIONS n im da girl thats gonna find out n not put up with not knowin for sure
anyways he selfish but also can be sweet , it HARD to understand him , he got 2 sides, sometimes he grumpy n gets me mad cause he in a bad mood n i tryin to sit next to him n dont want me to . sometimes i see he look at other girls, i right there, i say what u doin, he says i just lookin around , i say u were checkin her out he says no i just lookin at people , yeah right ............... so rude so now i am doin the same thing .. he dont like i do what he do to me , but why he do it then, he selfish n self centered ,on my birthday we fighting he call his ex girlfriend at 3 am and i right there , he wanted to get me mad then he hung up on her when he thought that she thought he wanted her and he dont , he didnt get me nothin on mothers day , or valentines day , his ex use to text him o nhis new phone , he says his friends gave her his number , maybe maybe not i dont know ,, theres why to much more to say but i dont wann write my life , u get da picture, i aint sayin i perfect either sure its 50 50 ,there is good things about him to i cant explain the whole story so maybe i leve out a couple things , to much to write u know but a girl can only try so hard before she give up i think ya man is so wrong for treating u that why , i just wanted u to know that my man is similiar , i dont know ,i reALLY want the baby to have his daddy in his life, i just dont know if i can stand him forever, when it good its great but when we fight forget it he a jerk,i dont really think he cheatin on me but i cant be so sure and the way he acts he dont respect me like i should be respected , i tryin to work things out but he dont ever seem like he cares how i feel , i try to tell him what bothers me about this relationship all da time but he blows it off like its nothin AND this is whats causin all the problems i was the 1 to always showed i cared more if somethign bothered him i wanted to fix it but he dont care he tries but it just aint enough he says i love u but words aint nothin his actions dont show it as much as they should , i dont need a answer really i think i already know my answer but i just want other people to know there are other capricorn men like theres out there if u got any comments or questions ill try to answer it more better n be more specific sorry for da mess i just wanna finish typing fast
