WhatTo Do........

In any relationship, partners will experience good days, bad days, good months and bad months, good years and bad years. The most important thing in the end is (hopefully) that there are more good experiences then bad. When you look at your relationship, remember to stop and take a look at yourself. Is there something you could have done differently that would result in a different out come? If there is, let your partner know and clean it up. If there isn't, remember people will treat you the way you allow them to. Some people are so myoptic (self-centered) that they can only see their own wants and needs. It is important to let other people know were your boundies are and what is acceptable behavior. If you are not being treated as well as you are treating your partner, let your partner know their behavior is not acceptable. If your partner cannot respect your boundries and wishes, you should consider finding someone that will. If your partner is not really doing anything wrong but is still getting on your nerves, you may want to seek professional help to find out why. Remember, relationships are only perceptions; they are only as good or bad as you perceive. Good luck and be happy.

Do the good times out number the bad... its hard living with someone your gonna get on each others nerves from time to time. Learn to pick your fights. Don't fight over something so trivial that you don't remember what the fight was about to begin with. Find away to have your space some alone time. Cut grass read a book, cook just get out from in under each other. it will make you appreciate the time you do spend together.