Wanting more than sex

How do I let a guy know that i want more than just sex from him. he is a friend and we have great sex but now I think i might like him more than just someone to have fun with. what should i do?


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The best thing that you can do is talk to him. Be honest and let him know how you feel. If you are friends, and physically comfortable and intimate with one another, then you should be able to communicate openly. Make it seem like more of a discussion than pressure to take the next step. Let him know how much you like spending time with him and how much fun you have. Once you have boosted his ego a bit then tell him how you feel. Make sure to let him know how much you treasure his friendship and how you would not want to do anything to damage it before taking this step. Good luck!

 
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


Hockeygilli gave you an excellent answer.  You should follow her advise but I have to warn you: It can solve your "problem" (reach what you want) but it can break your relations.... He might be willing to enjoy the present situation and run away the minute you try to change it and make him more commited..... (it happends frequently). I truely wish you that it will be OK but just be prepared.....
Best regards,  
 
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i went through this tell him straight out you like him do whatever you have to also if he's having sex with you then he must like you a little i mean come on

 

TELL HIM. he doesnt know what on your mind unless you talk to him...but if he doesnt want any more dont sell yourself short and keep giving it up, move on to someone who wants to commit to you

 
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You should have been friends first. You made a huge error in judgment and now you will be second guessing yourself at every turn. In your next relationship get to know the person first. A girl who puts out for every guy who smiles at her, or is simply a nice guy is a girl who will be sorry in the end.

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