Verbal Abuse

Hi,
You are absolutely right, you shouldn't accept such a behavior.  Yes, verbally abuse frequently ends with physical abuse.  However the easiest solution to a problem is to run away..... You love him (as you say) and divorce should be considered only after all other options to solve the problem failed.  In your case you didn't try all options.  You can (and should) go to a marriage counselor even on your own.   If you can't communicate with him face to face than you can write to him / e-mail him, phone him.....  Please try harder..... I believe that if you put effords into it you might save your marriage.   
Best regards,

i think divorce may be the safest and best answer to protect you and your relationship. If you dont have kids yet, i would definately consider a divorce especially if he is not willing to seek counseling together. My advice in the mean time to try to avoid confrontations and arguements, maybe try to do things that he likes to do until your able to resolve it.

Well,Honey many a details in yr question are missing ,that could help address the grave issue on an equally higher plateform.

1.Was it a love marriage..?

2.How long did you both enjoy courtship..?

3.Did you ever notice such behavioural symptoms earlier and if yes  did you discuss it out.

In general terms i agree to the comments and observations made by many a scholars on the issue in question.

But allow me to enlighten you,"

"Going to Marriage councillor wud hardly serve any purpose NOW."

Its advisable and prudent to thrash it  out within four walls of your sweet home.

you are hardly married for an year.....set aside your EGO..and stop challenging HIS ..and learn to be  freinds to care..

Indeed ,Its you who needs to take the Initiative  before you loose your life partner  with a pain.

Life is all about understanding and adjustments.

Come what may  "Men will remain Men.",

I am no way advocating or endorsing yr mans erratic  behaviour,and it really helps if Mens egos are  addreesed and  honoured  politely..

Be a good friend to him,love him ,let him feel You care for him and his  happiness..I am affirmative  you will get wonderfully encouraging  response from HIm.

My blessings

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I wonder how a matured mind cud giued a timid and young bride of One year of married age  ,to run away,communicate thru emails,phones;;and what not..

Hey  this isssue needs to be addressed and attended at a very delicate and personal level.

Dont try to ruin her life...by advising irrational acts that lead to distancing her from  a family life in the making.

Think of heras Your own daughter ..and then advise..OK