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Vaginal hole size reduced after a gap in intercourse

I am a recently married man. I had sex (actual penetration) with my wife for jusr 5-6 times, after which i had to undergo Circumcision . Afet two months break, we have resumed our sex life, however I am unable to penetrate into my wife's vagina even after 5 days of trying. I am able to insert my finger into her. My Question is , " Does Vagina size change if their is a gap in intercourse of 2 months?"


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Hi 723,

     The vaginal opening did not get smaller because you have stopped sex for 2 months.  I do think the problem is a lack of foreplay and lack of vaginal lubrication.  You may need to spend more time in getting your partner sexually ready before trying penile penetration.  You may also use a good vaginal lubricant to avoid this problem and also to minimize vaginal pain due to dryness.

      I hope that this will help.

Posted 2008-06-03T10:14:22Z
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Hi,
My friend Dogbreeder gave you, as she always does, an excellent answer (gave her 2 thumbs up).  No offence, please, but I would like to add that the most probable reason is not she but you.  I highly recommend that you consult a sexologist.  I have that feeling that something went wrong there during the circumcision. 
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Posted 2008-06-03T11:52:40Z
 

Nope, physically, the vagina is physically the same. I think that the expectation and stress from the Circumcision effect both you and your wife and she doesn't relax enough to allow penetration. I think the best solution would be to not to stress about it so much, start having sex with more for play and oral interaction and then when she's more relaxed and naturally moist, try the penetration again.

I know most women (me included) get much more open after one orgasm, so  maybe the two of you should make sure she has one or at least get as sexually aroused as possible before trying penetration.

Posted 2008-06-03T18:54:10Z
 
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What none of the other posters have taken into account is that the vaginal opening is surrounded by and made up of muscles, and those muscles like any other muscle in the body can become larger or smaller with use (or lack thereof).  It is possible that her vaginal walls have changed shape.  Stress on the muscles (rough sex, for example) can cause the muscles to swell and grow like any other muscle (do curls and see if your arms don't grow).

Posted 2008-06-05T22:22:48Z
 
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yes there are changes actually.. i think it is not about the hole it is about the lubricant.. your partner doesnt lubricate at all.. ;)

Posted 2008-06-11T06:51:49Z
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