i have the same problem i tried to hide it all my life. i wasn't too worried about it as long as i was pretty, thin, and in shape. but as i matured, got married, had children i felt more embarrassed. I was out of shape and mostly depressed with myself. i would pitch a fit so i wouldn't have to go anywhere because i didn't look good in my clothes. I wouldn't wear sexy clothes to a night club or get into a swim suit and go swimming. when all i wanted to was just dive in and have fun. it can pose a threat in your life if you don't get a hold on the issue. So i wouldn't go swimming and being intimate was a tremendous issue. i hid behind dark lights and sheets and then maybe sex would be just ok. i stayed home alot while my husband went out i did things with my kids instead of doing daring things with my husband and his friends. i divorced after 16 years i had too many problems one following another. what i use to hide everyone knows about now and they don't seem to have a problem with it. my daughter is 18 she has the same problem and she blames me of course but it is more of a joke /curse thing and she is cool with it. plus she has more great atributes, my new companion has no problems with the way i look . He told me he has never been with a woman who hasn't had one bigger than the other. he always tells me i am beautifull and he loves my boobs. he has gotten me out of a shell i would have never come out of !. also there are a lot of better fashions these days and variety try them all till you are just give out and then try some more. get measured by a bra specialist to buy the best sized bras and swim suits. yes, swim suits buy one that is an adjustable halter it will work wonders for you. and another thing is go to a masectomy specialist fitter tell them your problem they can help determine the weight of your bigger breast sell you a gell implant that fits into one of their specialst bras for around $250.00. it will pay off believe me. this will help you feel more confident all day long knowing your clothes fit properly and you aren't worried about being lop sided or your nipples aren't in place,etc....hope this helps you and others