The spotlight is on the one who shines the best.  The one who is outfront of everyone else.  You almost have it right, live, love, laugh but make sure not to take yourself so seriously.

By the by gimbo, I have served my country in 2 wars including this one, traveled the world in both directions twice and believe me nimrod I have plenty of experience under my belt, know a twit when I see one and you fit the discription.

Anyone who left your backside had good common sense.