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Unconditional love

I know my partner loves me unconditional love. I myself love him but I am not in the same position. Should I worry?


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Love your life as you only get one. 

What do you mean you don't love him in the same way? As in, he loves you unconditionally and you don't love him unconditionally? If that's the case, I think you should make a list of what types of conditions you've placed on your love. Depending on what they are, this partner may not be the one for you (at least in my opinion).

Posted 2008-03-01T11:24:54Z
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It is a proven fact that when a man does fall in love, he will love his significant other more. I thought about that a lot when I read about it and I was like how do they figure that. Then I thought, they do take longer to fall in love then women and not as often as us lol. So, no I wouldn't worry about that. But, if you feel as though you could love someone more than you love your partner then you should definitely re-evaluate the whole relationship.

Posted 2008-03-04T01:36:45Z
 
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Don't marry the one you can live with, Marry the one you can't live with out!

Posted 2008-03-09T22:32:25Z
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leave him, so he can move on with his life otherwise you will end up stuck with the wrong man, you may cheat on him or leave him after a lot of wasted time, when you could do it now and save him a lot of hurt and wasted time.

Posted 2008-03-10T15:23:34Z
 
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You got that one right!!

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Man's point of view:  Be honest with him regarding how you feel towards him.  If he truly loves you unconditionally, he will respect your feelings and work towards earning your unconditional love for him.  If you don't think you were ever be able to unconditionally love him, move on.  Don't drag him along for the ride only to eventually break his heart.

Posted 2008-03-16T03:23:26Z
 

I'm just a little confused by what you mean by unconditional love...Do you mean you love him but with conditions??? like if he continued to do something you didn't like, or didn't live up to your expectations, your feelings would change? relationships and love are so complicated...all I know, is I imagine my life without my boyfriend, and it's not as full and happy...it's a really difficult thing, but you should ask yourself if you're being fullfilled emotionally, physcially, intellectually, sexually, and mentally, and if you find yourself saying no, maybe that's your answer.

Posted 2008-04-11T02:47:27Z
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He does not love you unconditionally or you you would be referring to him as your husband--not your partner!

Posted 2008-04-11T05:21:25Z
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