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"Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get."

"Stupid is as stupid does."

"My name is Forrest, Forrest Gump."

Am I Ugly Or Pretty??? Sooooo many mixed signals here...gosh. PLEASE HELP.

I am kind of insecure about my looks because so many people tell me I'm gorgeous, but then again a few people tell me that i'm ugly. So idk what to think. I mean when I look in the mirror, i think I am very pretty. Please dont think I'm concieted because of this. So i just dont know anymore. All I think I need to do to improve my looks except eyeliner and busty shirts. So please just help me up my self-confidence. Thank you, readers and commenters. I greatly appriciate what y'all have to say.


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just keep telling yourself i am not beautiful like you.  I AM BEAUTIFUL LIKE ME!!!

 

 
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Well we would need to see a picture of you in order to tell you honestly whether you really are pretty or not.

If it is females who are telling you are ugly, they are most likely jealous of you! If it is men, it could be perhaps because they are upset that they can't be with you?

Its normal to get confused about what you look like.

 

 
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Open the pod bay doors HAL

One of the burdens women bear is that they think they are judged on what they look like and not who and what they are. I never cease to be amazed at how guys don't think or care what they look like (fat guys look in the mirror and see themselves slightly overweight) while girls turn 5 extra pounds into obesity.

You are your own worst critic and what's important is what you think. If you like the way you look, you are pretty, and I don't need a pic to tell you that. I would seriously question the motives of anyone telling you that you're ugly. You don't need friends like that, so if you can't cut them loose, don't allow them to unduly influence your opinion of yourself.

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If you're pretty enough to look good dressed and ready to go out, that's pretty enough.  Work on developing your inner personality for confidence.  Read books on the subject, go on line for opinions, do something in school that sets you apart, such as be good in art or the clarinet or help out in the office.  Always be helpful and nice to your peers and they will like you, too.  Keep your room neat so when you walk in at night or late day you don't get greeted with an unmade bed.  What a mood killer!  Neatness is worth it.  Redecorate, can be very inexpensive and fun.  Have a girlfriend help you.  Pick one who may need you a little.  Very good feeling!

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