"So should I go over all my things because of my moms comments or should I just ignore what she said and wear it. You cannot see it if you are wearing it."
Yes, you should go over every article of clothing in your closet even though you know there's nothing to see. Your mother has successfully planted the seed of insecurity in your mind, so you're going to worry everytime you dresss because you place an inordinate amount of importance on what your mother says and thinks about your clothing.
You can make a project of this by taking several weeks and doing it all at once, or begin dressing 15 minutes earlier each time you go out. Take this extra time to carefully examine what your wearing for faded, stained or torn areas not readily visible to the eye. Another problem I have is that stitching begins to come undone on some of my older stuff and it always happens when I'm out in public. Very embarrasing!!! URI has an excellent point which I've reprinted below;
"Just remember, although you might not be able to see it when you wear it, the first time you raise your arms, other people WILL notice"
So be sure to raise your arms and check underneath. Another suggestion, if you're wearing pants be sure to bend over in front of a mirror to check for questionable areas in the rear, or have your mother examine this angle carefully. After all the time and efort you put into your clothing we wouldn't want anyone making any derogotory remarks about your clothing or your appearance.
We are going to work with you on these clothing issues until you have nothing left to worry about.
