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UPDATE:  TODAY MY MOM AND I WERE TALKING SHE SAID TO ME ALL I HAD TO DO WAS SAY TO HER THAT I AM GOING TO WEAR IT ANYWAY.  AND THEN IT WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN AN ISSUE ANY MORE.

STORY TO REFRESH YOUR MEMORY (THIS HAPPENED YESTERDAY): I put on light gray capri pants and a button down light gray blouse. In the middle of the blouse going from top to bottom is a design.

Any way around 10:30am I screamed out to my mom to turn on Channel 4 (NBC) - they had Produce Pete on. She asked what was it about and I told her it is about how to pick peaches. She came into my room to watch and after the segment was over she looked at me and said "You looked to dressed up" . This got me mad and we had some fight. Of course she said mean things like "The blouse is too big" "You used to buy things that fit you now you just grab any old thing" " You look like you are going to a ball" which none of what she said is true. ALL I WAS DOING WAS WEARING A PAIR OF GRAY CAPRI PANTS AND A GRAY BLOUSE

Then she left the apartment to go out for the day but she telephoned me five minutes later from the car - she never pulled out of the spot by the apartment building. She called to ask if I wanted to go with her so I said ok, I saved the spot. We have one spot in the back that we pay for the other car has to park on the street. Her car is usually on the street and my car is usually in the spot we pay for reason being she works and I am home so I take her to work and pick her up so I dont have to worry about finding a spot during the day.

Any way when we were at lunch I told her that she had no right to say anything and she said that she could say anything she wants and it was nothing terrible to say when she said I was over dressed. I told I was not.
  I WORE THE GRAY BLOUSE AND THE GRAY CAPRI PANTS - I DID NOT CHANGE. I

ALSO I hate the way she dresses. Yes she wear capri pants but she only wears tee shirts during the summer and they cling to her. And I would never dress the way many people


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I think the two of you need to take long and seperate vacations from each other.  In another post you said you were 50 and your mom was 80.  The way the two of you are acting is very childish.  You both are probably so tired of each other that all you can see are these petty things.  Stop harping on the little things and get on with living!  

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Wow, it is hard to believe that ou are having this much trouble getting along after all these years. She is pretty old and maybe doesn't always say what she means. The question here is, why does what she thinks or says affect you so much? i would really insist that she get involved in community activities if she is not, and then help her just get started and step away. It wouldn't hurt you both to see a counselor. You have some sort of codependency thing going and it is not healthy for either of you.

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If you two are 50and 80 it is time you had some serious talks. You need to share youra feelings. Always beging with I feel. That is non threatening and allows the oither to respond. So get with it. Conversation is your answer. Be kind to one another and talk it out.

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Funguy, as you can see, we've been trying (a bunch of us) to help this woman for many months.  She is obsessed with clothing and with her mother's remarks.  She has never allowed herself to become grown up and continues to this day to react to life in an immature and childish manner.  We've begged her to see a therapist, but she continues to post these long "conversations"  I am convinced that this person does not want to be helped.  She simply wants to rant and rave about the pettiness of life.

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