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Trust : What is it, how do you manage your trust relation with others ?

A question about Trust

What is it ?
What is your definition of the "trust" ?

How do you manage your trust relation with others  ?
How can you tell from someone is trustable or not, do you manage level of trust ? what are your references ? 


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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


You raised an excellent question.  I am able to give an 8 hrs lecture about it.  There is a theory named TORI that says, in short: Trust is the base of any good relaion.  Trust is the base of the pyramid that any good relation is built on.  Only if trust exists than comes the rest (Openess, Relations, Interelationship).   If I need to summarize the book "The Customer as a Butterfly" (Written by 2 American Proffesors. Ladies.... don't remember the names ..... One is Iman Swaft [not sure]) I'll do it in one sentence: "Trust is the most important factor in any business".   Trust is like a bank acount, you build your crediability slowly slowly, step by step, but you ruin it in one bad move !
My definition of trust : "The ability to believe that what you are told is 100% true, a promise will be kept, the person will not let you down, in case of doubt the person will go an extra mile for you". 
Only experience will teach you to identify who is a trustfull person.  In any case you give trust step by step, each time more, and only if that person desrves to pass to the next step.   That's the way I manage my trust relations.  Once a person looses his trust I simply delete his name from my list (no business, no friends,.... ).
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Fool me once,

shame on you!!

Fool me twice,shame on me!

first,i have to know them for awhile,then i tell them a few things about myself.when they do not say the things i told them to other people,then my trust builds,until i am completely comfortable with them and i can share more info with them!

Posted 2007-10-08T08:12:00Z
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I think it's more of a choice then anything else for me.

I've been hurt in the past but yet I choose to trust people, knowing that I might get hurt again. I believe that loving and loosing is better then not loving at all.

I have a friend who's very untrusting, he suspect everyone, every time he leaves his car he check all the door 8 times, and would never leave his bag in a cafe while going to the bathroom, he check the change he get back in a store always and always think someone's trying to short change him.

I'm not like that, he never had his wallet stolen, I had mine stolen twice, on both case, nice people who found it, returned it to me. Even at the price of having my purse stolen a couple of time in my life, I rather trust humanity to return it or at least not have to stress out about it all the time.

I was upset about my stolen purse for a couple  of weeks, he's upset about his not-yet-stolen wallet almost every day. I rather take the heartache of loosing something, then the constant worry and suspiciousness and isolation of mistrust.

I guess it's the same for larger things then purses and wallets.

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