Originated from
AOL Coaches
Asked about “Love & Sex on AOL Coaches

Trust issues?

How can i trust my b/f after bein hurt by past reltionships? How can i tell that he's sincere?


Would you like to answer or comment?

Sign up for a free account, or sign in (if you're already a member).
  • 217 views
Share Send to a friend Watch Report
 
 

Posted Answers

Order by
 
4911 thumbs up

Live simply, love generously and  care deeply.

 

Krystal,

     You need to take time and observe your new boyfriend.  You'll see if he is sincere and honest.  Just give it time.  Don't think that he'll do the same thing that the others did.  Everybody is different.

     There are things that you won't discover in one month, 2  or 3 months.  if you observe him for 2 years, you'll find out if he's honest and sincere.

Good luck to you.


Posted 4 months ago ( permalink )
Rated as
Best Answer
0
5

Helpful?

line
line
line



 
1536 thumbs up

Surrender.  Surrender.  But don't give yourself away . . . .

   ~ Cheap Trick ~

Every time you open your heart to love, you stand a chance of having it broken ~ but you also have a chance at finding true love.  Fear is a disease.  It poisons us, keeps us from spreading our wings, holds us back from wondrous things.  There are no real ways of knowing except for Dogbreeder's advice.  Give it time.  Don't jump in too quickly.  Make him earn your trust, and don't just hand your life over into his hands.  Let him know that trust is a big issue for you.  Just take it slow, Sweetie.  You won't know until you have spent some serious time with him.


Posted 4 months ago ( permalink )
Skitch was invited by Yedda to answer this question.

Rated as
#2 out of 6
0
2

Helpful?

line
line
line



 
1 thumb up

if he does it once he will do it again and you need to remember that trust is something that one earns


Posted 4 months ago ( permalink )
Rated as
#5 out of 6
0
1

Helpful?

line
line
line



 
2 thumbs up

Well i know how that feels and if i were you i would tell your bf how you feel and tell him that you been hurt alot and you just wanna make sure that he is being real with you.. So don't have trust issues with him just because your last relationships didnt go well.. : )


Posted 4 months ago ( permalink )
Rated as
#3 out of 6
0
2

Helpful?

line
line
line



 
9 thumbs up

i would say : i always start everyone with a 100 % trust is up tpo them to keep it up . trust is a very complex word you gonna jus have to close ur eyes and let yourself go . remember everything happens for a reason if this one messes up then hunny it wsnt ment to be.


Posted 4 months ago ( permalink )
Bonitah was invited by Yedda to answer this question.

Rated as
#6 out of 6
0
0

Helpful?

line
line
line