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Trouble down under

hi, i am a 23 yr old male from India.. i have an active life and i am quite healthy.. however, i have a little trouble down under.. i don't masturbate(believe it!!) but i watch adult movies and all.. sometimes i get arousing dreams and ejaculate in my sleep(wet dreams) which can get embarassing if seen by others.. i don't seem to be able to control them.. is this normal for someone as old as me? can i prevent/cure this? another problem i have is that my penis muscle, on getting aroused, gets hard(as usual) but isn't straight.. i have a girlfriend with whom i get intimate.. we've tried sex but weren't entirely successful.. my penis wouldn't go in completely, something seemed to be blocking it.. is it because of the shape of my penis? could it be lack of lubrication? in any case, is my penis shape normal or do i need to do surgery or some other treatment to get the shape rectified? another problem is, my penis head never really shapes up.. my head doesnt really get out of the foreskin and doesnt really become very distinct compared to the rest of the penis.. (i am not circumcised)... is this normal? am i getting a full erection? or is something wrong? and lastly, my penis is about 5.5 inches long and kind of thick.. is that sufficiently big, or do i need penis enlargening drugs? (my girlfriend says its way too big and hurts her when i tried to go in her, so i shouldn't worry about this, but still..) in any case, do the penis enlargening drugs work? are there any side effects? what do they cost? as you have probably guessed by now, i am quite worried about this list of queries, and would be relieved if someone would help me by answering truthfully on these matters.. i don't want to ask parents as it would be embarassing for me.. same with friends... please help... thanks

 

p.s.: sorry if the contents are too explicit, but they are genuine problems.. also, can't i attach a pic to my query? i wanted to attach a rough (pretty shabby) attempt at drawing my member to give an idea about wat i mean, but only urls are accepted.. no option to attach files from the comp... could be useful.. hope the suggestion is handy..


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Well thats alot of questions.First of all,start masturbating and this will more than likely help cure the wet dreams.You didn't really mention how much of a bend you have in your penis,but to ease your mind most of us have a curve,some to the left,some to the right,etc.,so unless it's at a right angle then I wouldn't worry about it.The foreskin should be able to come down,you may have to help it a bit.If you can't get it down then this could be a health and hygene problem,because you need to be able to get the foreskin down so you can keep it clean.If you can't get it down then you should see a Dr. about that problem.Now,5.5 is about average length.You say it's kind of thick so that could be the problem of not being able to get completely in,go slow and use a lubricant.Hope this helps some.

Posted 2008-04-08T07:57:20Z
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hey... thanks that did help a lot.. just a few more questions.. i am not too comfortable with masturbation.. somehow doesn't seem to "come" naturally to me (pardon the pun).. can i ask my girlfriend to go down on me instead? i go down on her all the time, but don't ask for the same since she didn't seem too comfortable initially.. but now she seems to be offering it to me.. as for the whole foreskin bit, u may have gotten a wrong idea.. if i pull it the foreskin does pull back.. however the head of my penis doesn't seem to be too distinct from the rest of it (unlike the bulb shape it is supposed to be).. hence the question am i getting a full erection.. it is slightly thicker, but not as much as it should be (or as i have seen in movies and stuff).. and thankfully enough, the bend isn't right angled.. but it is a bit sharply bent, not a curve.. as for the advice on going slow, i do go slow, but i guess i should try more lubrication.. and u mentioned thickness.. it isn't overly thick (atleast not abnormally) but my girlfriend seems to find it too huge and it hurts her when i try to insert it.. so even i feel kinda reluctant about going all the way and pushing it further.. should i just not be too worried about that?

am i just being paranoid about my penis? or is there somthing to worry about? i am sorry for giving another lengthy set of questions, but i hope you can understand my anxiety...

Posted 2008-04-09T13:16:14Z
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hey friend

dont worry too much; you are normal
Posted 2008-04-29T07:14:25Z
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as far as sexual encounter with your girlfriend are concerned,its just because u are little discomfortable because of your these queries(which i think are baseless); and you think you are not normal. While doing sex, having any kind of such doubts would make it tough. Relax and things will be normal
Posted 2008-04-29T07:16:44Z
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most uncircumsized males between the ages of 2-10 years of age will be able to fully retract their foreskin but it should never be forced.However there are rare occasions when the foreskin does not retract so you will need to see a doctor.Now about the size of your penis dont worry about and besides penile implants and cock rings there is nothing you can do to naturally increase the size of your member.I understand that your penis has a problem with going in the wrong direction.Not a problem once its in her vagina will make sure it doesnt go anywhere.And finally the reason why it hurts her and it wont go in is because you are rushing and she is not fully lubricated.Buy some Ky and relax.
Posted 2008-06-23T21:38:45Z
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hey guys,

thanks for all ur replies and suggestions and the info... now i m happy to say tht i am leading a very satisfying sex life... so is my gf ;) ... thanks to all of u
Posted 2009-02-09T03:00:13Z
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