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Tips for fingering and oral

I've only been with two girls, my ex and my current girlfriend. My current girlfriend and I do not have sex, but we have set a mutual boundary at "everything but sex." The problem is, she does not/cannot seem to orgasm from fingering or oral sex. I don't mean to sound conceited, but I know I'm not bad at performing either of these two things; she's told me that I'm the best she's been with, and that she's never orgasmed before.

I've literally tried everything I can think of to help her to enjoy it, but nothing works. Any help?


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Fredo777
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I'm a rock star, baby.

Try some sex toys, maybe.

Does she have any issues with using those?
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I found some great links in a past question asked here on yedda about teaching how to perform good oral sex on a female. I used it myself to help out a friend "in need." The one we thought was most helpful was this one on askmen.com. You have no reason to feel insecure about your performance abilities. There is always more to learn and each individual has different preferences. For many women, they have never had a full orgasm because they have never reached the comfort level with a partner to release all inhibitions, and completely relax and let her sensations take over. Perhaps your girlfriend has some insecurities about her body that don't allow her to totally relax. Give her time and make her feel beautiful as she is. As she becomes more comfortable with you, it should become easier for her to orgasm. Good luck.

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