Three different guys.

I like three different boys. one is an arab, and so sweet, and cute. the second one is an irish boy and he is HOTTTTTT!!! and totally awesome. the third one is canadian, and cute, and really sweet. they are all three my best friends. oh and i live in the US. which one should i pick?

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First off let me just give you a fair warning; friends can make good lovers but ex-lovers usually don’t make good friends.

With that warning out of the way, let me give you very simple advice.  In today’s world “dating” isn’t taken to the extent that it has been in the past.  Dating does not mean exclusively seeing only one person.  My advice to you would be to try and arrange a very platonic date with each of the three gentlemen.  Make sure that each one is aware of the fact that is just a simple date.  Get to know each one on that “intimate” level.  By intimate, I do not mean sexual.  I mean the one on one romantic level.  You already know that you are semi-compatible with all of them because they are your friends. What you need to discover is who you have true chemistry with.  Even though you are physically attracted to each one, chances are the dates will be very different.  My guess is one of the dates will just feel like hanging out with the boys.  One of the dates may border on scary/creepy and one will feel just right.  Don’t leave this decision up to people on an advice site.  Discover your true feelings and make the decision for yourself.  You deserve to know firsthand if any of them will be right for you.

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Hell hath no fury like a SCORPIO woman scorned..!

meh.  i say keep them all!
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The arab boy lives in UAE, The irish boy lives in Northern Ireland, the canadian boy lives in Canada. And I live in the USA. so it would be VERY VERY hard, and EXTREMELY expensive to go on a date w/ each one. so I imagined it. With the Irish boy, itd be like a night out w/ my girlfriends. (hes bisexual...) The arab boy, itd be like going out just to hang out w/ my guy friends. The canadian boy... well... THAT would be like a date. And i KNOW the Canadian boy REALLY likes me alot. He said so. but they are ALL three my BEST friends that flirt w/ me also lol. the canadian boy and i flirt ALOT more then i do with the other two, and on a more personal/romantic level... SOOO in all honesty... i guess the canadian boy? :) thanks.
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lol, THANKS! i will keep them all!!! :)
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Well I think you have really just answered your question.  Sometimes I think it is big help to see your dilema in writing.  It makes it more tangible.  Is it fisable for you to actual date your canadian guy or will it just be a long distance relationship?
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I could actually get a good relationship worked out with the canadian guy, i have family near where he lives, so it wouldnt be alot, but whenever i go to visit my family, i could spend time with him, and hes said he would come here sometimes, so we could really work out a relationship. BUT theres another problem... the canadian guy has a gf... who talks bad about him behind his back, and he doesnt know what to do. he doesnt really like her too much, he likes me alot more. he doesnt say "i love you" to her, but me and him say "i love you" allllll the time to each other. like, a million times a day? lol. drama drama drama... i think hes gonna break up with her tho...
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