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Hi confused,

     He has a girlfriend.  You say you both love each other. You need to suggest to him to break off with his girlfriend first before continuing  your relationship with him.

     You will know how serious he is with you.  If he breaks off with his other gf then he must be serious with you.  If he won't do it then he is just using both of you for sex. 

hey confuse if he loves u tell him to break it off withhis girlfriend, if he give u any excuses he want his cake and eat it to, belive me u dont want b in a relationship like this and i know because im currently in love with a married man that says he loves me and we both have some one else, it is dreadful not being able to have him to my self, it like dying on the inside and no way out. so belive me if he loves you like he say he does he will b with u, he dont have commentment like marrage on his bac so it should be easy.