As a son of a father who chose suicide, ensure the boy in time has a proper male figure to replace him with, for boys it is so necessary, otherwise all may seem fine, but those wounds are hard for the victim to even feel, and that pain is somehow worse. Replacement sounds foolhardy, but it is necessary. We never think twice about replacing anything, except people and pets, why? idk but i beleive that a good replacement can erase alot...in time.