Suspect cheating

Hi,
Your realtions are at a very low point (not to say: In a very deep crisis).  If you don't attend to it urgently your marriage will probablly break.  As per your description you won't be able o handle it by yourself so better get a proffesional advise.  Sorry if I was too direct but that's the whole truth....
Best regards,

Have you tried marriage counseling? It sounds like you two could use some professional help in saving the marriage.

I have to agree with Eric. I think you need to seek out professional help immediately if you want to save your marriage.

hi there i am so sorry you are going thru all this! it has been 6 month's since you asked this question so i hope thing's are better for you! if they are not, i am , have been going thru the same thing, we have been married for 20yrs. now i believe he has been cheating awhile now. at first i thought i could fix it, now ...i am sure he is & instead of fighting with him, facing the constant critisizm from him& yes he is angry (why work on his marriage when he can get what he thinks is better w/someone else) i have  made an appt. w/a lawyer next week!   always trust your gut! ALWAYS!  best of luck....