Yes, i think that it is okay to do once in awhile.I think that it should be reserved for women you want to have a relationship with.Pick up on her hints, but drop some of your own.women like to surprise guys too.so if there is a hockey game you want to see ,drop some hints , you never know she might come up with two tickets to go..it is a thoughtful way to show each other you care and you are listening to each other.I dont think that it should be all the time ...i like to lounge around at the house order a pizza and watch gladiator too..lol....Natasha