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Strange conversation I overheard my best friend's husband have with my daughter..

Last weekand, we were all sitting in my kitchen drinking wine. My husband, my best friend, her husband (48) and my 22 year old daughter. While my best friend and I were talking, my daughter and my friend's husband were talking. I overheard them talking about incest...and heard him say he thought it was normal and her saying it was gross. So he replied, "so you're saying you've never had a se.xually thought about your dad or wanted him"? she was kind of like....0_0..(thinking it was awkward obviously) I overheard all of this while my friend was talking to me at the same time so she didn't hear. Did you think it was appropriate to say this? or was he trying to be all philosophical? I also noticed how when he sometimes passes my daughter he sometimes poked her on her side, stomach (she just laughs saying, "stop" and moves away...but her smile is awfully flirty)...and he has never done that when she was 15, 16,17,18,19,20...just like a year ago. I have thought it was just because he was trying to be friendly but now it seems like maybe he's being "a little too friendly"? what do you all think? I need opinions. Whenever it's a family gathering and there's drinking involved in restaurants and dancing...he would always take my daughters hand to dance...he also like to tease her. Men I need your perspective...does this mean he likes her or is bored and trying to act like an ****?



Oh....and also this man is not some loser or anything either....he's German and a millionaire. And acting this way...strange
(btw...he pokes her when he hasn't been drinking too....once I saw him whisper something in his 5 year old daughter's ears at the dinner table and she came up to my daughter and poked her....my daughter then gave my friend's husband the "tsk tsk tsk flirty look with a smile' and he smiled back too So basically he tells his daughter to do this when he cannot because his wife is near which is sick)

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  I think you should just remind your daughter that she is flirting with a married man.  Even if she's 22 years old, she is still to be told that what she is doing is not right.  She should tell him to stop this flirting with her.

Posted 2009-09-18T12:12:25Z
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Open the pod bay doors HAL

DBL is absolutely right. This is inappropriate behavior at best. I've got a great sense of humor but there's no humor in incest! One more thing, "many a truth is spoken in jest" and your daughter may think this guy is kidding but it's possible he's not. If this continues, she needs to be prepared for the day when his overtures turn serious. This sounds to me like an older guy infatuated with a younger girl. My advise, tell her the possibilities and continue to discuss the situation with her.

Posted 2009-09-18T18:30:36Z
 
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Okay, well that's just creepy. The very fact that he seems to feel that there's nothing wrong with incest would make him a person I would never want in my house or around anyone I care about. Being either German or a millionaire doesn't mean he's not a loser. Most millionaires ARE losers when it comes to being decent human beings. And this guy is hitting on your daughter. He's planning. He has a scheme. Trust me.

Posted 2009-09-18T18:45:13Z
 
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The Judge Says: You need to have a chat with your daughter.Remember you can be a millionair hubo .

Posted 2009-09-19T00:05:55Z
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