Even though this article is from 2006, I found it very relevant. For the last three nights, I have been having dreams about my current boyfriend finding another woman, cheating on me, or simply just leaving me behind. He is the first boyfriend that I have been with that is by far amazing and I know the dreams stem from my own past and internal insecurities. My mother left just after I was born, after my parents got a divorce, and I have been in a couple close relationships where there was definite betrayal. I guess my question is...what are the next steps? How can you take the information you know about yourself and really resolve the issues at hand. I am very self aware, but these issues from my past show their face when I am in a committed relationship. I know that until I resolve these deep issues, I will never truly trust my relationships. Any advice is welcomed.
