My wife and I have been married for almost 30 years. I'm retired (69 yrs) and we have one son away in college. My wife is several years younger. To put it bluntly, we're not getting along. Recently,during a disagreement, she couldn't remember what I thought, was a very important incidence between us. I told her that she must have mush for brains, since she can't recall this incidence the way I do. She wants me to apologize, but I haven't.
She claims I'm controlling toward our children. My daughter has suggested that at times. She and I aren't real close, but talk on the phone. None of the children are married. My oldest son hasn't spoken to me in months. I'm closest to our youngest son, who talks to me, but lives far away.
Am I seeing the big picture here? We've tried some counseling, but things don't change much. I've even suggested that we get a divorce, but she doesn't seem to go in that direction. I still love her. Do we continue to live as roommates or go our separate ways?
