Where there's smoke, there's fire. I had reason to be suspicious of my bf because every time the phone rang he wouldn't pick it up. While snooping through his phone, facebook, and myspace, these girls really flirted hard with him. However, he didn't flirt back too much. I forgave him, but since then he's changed his passwords, and deletes text messages. It makes it harder for me to trust him now even though his word says differently. I know he's never cheated on me physically. But emotional cheating hurts just the same. I'm kind of confused because I used to look at him through rose-colored glasses, now I'm always suspicious of him and his phone. It's hard dating a former player. And he's super cute. But I was a former player and I'm cute too. I've changed, can i trust that he changed too?