Snooping around boyfriend's place

I did something which I think is a lot worse . He left his e-mail account logged on and I gave it a quick scan. I felt so bad about it afterwards I couldn't stand it. I just kept on thinking how I would feel. I never found something incriminating and I decided never to do it again. Do you feel there is reason to do so? I think sometimes it's healthy for a relationship to have a virtual world where they can slip away too and let out some tensions there as long as it is virtual of course...

I've had clients who have snooped and they usually tell me the same thing afterwards: they regret it and wish they could go back and change things. Many times, you may not get caught but you will feel really guilty afterwards (and 99% of the time, my clients won't find anything incriminating anyways).

Yes, I to have done the snooping thing. Only to find my ex boyfriend left his email account still on and found out that he was talking to 2 women at the same time telling them both he was single and trying to make dates with both of them. After confronting him about it, the stupid ass did it again and this time was talking to his ex girl friend and how he missed all the good times and sexual times they had together. Also went snooping in his closet only to find a bag of sexual toys from his ex girl friend in there.

I've definitely done the snooping thing, but only on the computer & cell phone.  And only because I was suspicious. After barely two years and his level of affection decreased sharply - I wasn't gonna take that lying down.  Anyway, I found conversations with other girls where he told them he didn't have a girlfriend, and they were flirty and sexual (and then he doesn't flirt with me like that anymore).  Moreover, they sound like the conversations that we used to have when we first started dating.  I confronted him about it and he said he would never actually cheat on me but he just wanted to know if he was still in demand.  I broke down the first time I found a convo like that and I thought he understood, but then I found a second conversation that was even worse than the first. And then I found a text on his cell to the second girl that asked her to be his valentine. On Valentine's Day! He said he was just being nice and that she had a boyfriend. Oh man, ladies, I hope you never have to deal with this, because he doesn't understand that it broke my heart.

 Hope that answered your question =)

Yes I did snoop and found emails and naket pictures of his new friend.I called him and he was furies and she was suprise too.The next day I moved out and for 5 months my life just stopt.Beaing betriad like that is the worst pain you can go thru.I'm having a really hard time trusting now and hope that time will fix it all. 

I made the mistake of looking thru my boyfriends phone as he left it lying around and found text msgs to his estranged wife. Now i cant trust him and its affecting our relationship. Sometimes i wish i had not done that. But how do you go back. Im considering hiring a private investigator

PI is mayby one way and it's expensive.All will take time it's been 2 years sinc I have found emails and pictures and it's still painfull.I do forgive but I don't forget.Tri to take a break and you'll see if he is wort trying to work thinks out.

I would not do it if I found anything then I deserve it and the fact that I snooped says that I also cannot be trusted.