Well, if you're not interested in your governments assessment on what's going on in Nepal and how safe is it for you to go there, you'd have to decide for yourself after catching up on the latest news first hand through nepali newspapers.
you'll find a list here!
Read the papers (not just one day - follow the events), and use a map to see where most of the violent incidents happen. This way you'll know where not to go if you decide visiting the country.
