My sister called Dyfus (Division of Youth and Family Services...child protective system). She often used my daughter who is now 14 as a babysitter for her young son who is now six. My daughter was often wisked away by my sister so that she may go for drinks with friends or that she "just couldn't handle" her son. She started doing this when her son was just a baby and my daughter loved it but I always felt that she was being used. My sister would always buy her wonderful expensive presents that I could not afford so that my daughter began wanting to go over to her house more and more. Needless to say, she persuaded my daughter to lie and my sister told Dyfus that I physically abused my daughter (even tho I never did). I also have a 12 year old son and he knows that I never hit my daughter, but Dyfus took my daughter and she is now living about 4 and a half hours away. I do not have the means to visit her and it just makes me so depressed and angry that I am now put in this position. I truley believe that my sister called Dyfus with the intention of stealing her from me, but it back-fired on her when my ex-husband got invoved. I do not have a clue how I will ever get over this insane anger I feel for her and on top of it all, SHE is the one who physically abuses her son, but I will never call the authorities on her. This whole mess just drives me crazy.....Help! Cindy
