Shy guy help!

Okay here is the background info: I have a really huge crush on this one guy. He is not really that shy about talking out in class, but maybe rather shy about approaching me. He makes attempts to eye-lock with me, but I end up looking in the opposite direction because I am shy as well. Since he is rather popular, I think he might be shy for him to talk or approach me since it might be to embarassing for him to be seen with the unpopular girl. I need help! What are some other ways to tell if a shy guy likes you?


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He likes you alright.  By looking away, you may have given him the wrong impression that you are not interested.  Since you are shy, the easiest way for you to approach him is to have a mutual friend tell him that you are interested in dating him.

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   I agree with Iamjustcurious, one thumb up.  Another thing you could do is not to look away when he looks at you, smile at him and he should be able to take it from there.  Remember, actions speak louder than words.Smile

  Good luck.

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I totally agree with both answers!  You definitely should not look away, and definitely should smile back!  But my advice to you is to drop the shyness... it has to potential to ruin your life.  I was very shy a few years back, and it seemed impossible to overcome, but shedding that was the best decision of my life.  You will feel so much more comfortable about yourself, and will have a fun-filled life (even though you may have one now... the difference is amazing).  Do this for yourself, you deserve it.  If you need "help" I suggest the book "Goodbye To Shy"  it has a lot of inspiration even without reading the whole thing.  But anyway, good luck with the guy!!!

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