Showing my girlfriend I care

Hi,

Your girlfriend is craving for your attention and it is not necessarily quantity but quality. Surely you could take a few minutes each day to call her. She will realize that despite the fact you are so busy she is very important to you. Only a few minutes every day that is all that is required with sincerity and all your attention focused on her.

So I was having your exact same problem but with my boyfriend.  I guess eventually I realized if I'm not always rushing out the door, and I take a few minutes to say bye in the morning, let him know when I will be home for the day, and give him a big hug when i do get home he felt a little less neglected.  It doesn't take a whole night out of your work week.  It just takes a quick second to show that you wish you could be with them more.

show her that you care spend more time with her and act like a boyfriend not a sometimes friend

I have spoken with many couples that have been married, 40, 50 and more years. They all agree that couples must set aside one night a week, just for themselves. They do not go out with  other couples or visit others. This one night is for them and them alone. Many of the couples swear that they have never forgone  their night together.

Good luck and best wishes. 

Hi,

    Surely you are not busy 7 days a week, 24 hours a day.  Devote 1 evening with her, call her 2-5 minutes a day, send love notes via e-mail.

Tell her you care for her and  tell her you wished you could spend more time with her.

Me and my husband had the same thing happen to us and we made a point to make one or two days out of each week ours, No kids no family or friends just us. And it help a lot. and now we have been married for almost 4yrs and still going strong..

Tell her - often - that you DO care for her, very much.  Ask her what she expects from you.  Does she want more affection?  More of your time?  Little signs to let her know you're thinking of her?  What?  Different people want different things.  A cute post-it, on the bathroom mirror, coffee machine or where ever she will find it early in the day,with a love note might make her smile.  Also, ask yourself this:  Is whatever takes up so much of your time worth losing your best girl?  Make adjustments where necessary and above all ... COMMUNICATE WITH HER.  Nobody is a mind reader!

Good luck :)