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Showering lack of

what to do when your spouse stops showering or brushing their teeth but yet wants intimacy

also on those occasions that they do bathe its only b/c they are anticipating intimacy...but I am so turned off from the other non-showering times


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Live simply, love generously and  care deeply.

 

Hi,

    You need to have more sexual intimacy to entice him to shower and brush his teeth.  Always invite him to shower with you, this way this makes you closer together.

   Just tell him that you really want to feel clean and smell good before sex.  So if he knows that, then it's a motivation for him to shower more.


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My Granny always said "The only thing I have to do in life is stay black and die"  so I guess the rest is cake.  Right?

More then likely your spouse is depressed often people who are depressed fall into this habit.  Perhaps you should write to your spouse and explain to your spouse how you feel however try not to make it an attack.  You might even mention that if they make an effort to do it regualarly they may feel better about them selves also, you might suggest that they do it the same time of day everyday for 90 days until it becomes habit.  What the person before me mentioned as to bathing with your spouse is also a good idea. 


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