I am a lot older than you to be giving you advice at such a young age. All I can say is that the best sex and the best love of my life was when I was a teenager. We were animals..... His talk about swallowing was crude at best.. hes a moron... but truth be told.. its pure protein and its actually good for you. Its equivalent to one pork chop according to Oprah... as if her opinion mattered.....I hate that hobag...lol.

 Look...  we all know that people have sex at a much younger age... but I dont think I met one girl that didnt regret it except for the one that I dated all through high school... and yes... I was madly in love with her.. and she with me... but oats weren't sowed and I ... being a typical stupid kid... cheated on her.... Taking chances for both of us.  It's an adult decision for an adult pleasure that could ruin your life for many reasons. it also could be the best part of your life. This is going to sound stupid but I'd pray on wether he is your life long or just a crush that will cause you harm. There IS no right answer for this... its a decision. I remember one girl that saved her virginity for marriage ( which I think is a mistake because you may not be compatable... your stomache is just the beginning..to prove my point... but bet you like it later... ).... she was jealous of other girls that I was dating at the time and grabbed me by the hand and took ME up to lose her virginity. After she ran out of the room crying and never dated me again..... I was heart broken.... she even carried on the story that she was a virgin for years because some guy called me up and wanted to know the truth... I told him that was between her and I and if he didnt believe her that was a bad start... I wasnt gettting in the middle of this. I have regretted having doing it to this day (thought I care for her to this very day and wish I would have waited... then I probably would be married to her) and aside from the girl I dated for years ( yes I screwed up there too... I was a dumb guy).... I would have married her too...( this was after the break up ). How sad to find to women worth marrying and ruining them both for a piece of arse.... Its your decision..... take your time.... but I disagree about the waiting till marriage thing... it makes both parties wonder what they missed and will end in disaster for the marriage. I know that this didnt help much but at least it will let you think about things for a while untill you make up your own mind... and as far as the pain.. that will turn to pleasure... you might just be too small at the moment... give it time... and for Gods sake... one in five has herpes... as well as chylamidia which is unnoticeable but easily treated with antibiotics. It can give you cervical cancer too... Don't be scared.... be smart.... girls mature faster than boys.... so they will act a fool... and the girl above was right...hes gonna brag and probably distroy your reputation... but that's another story. Oh... anal sex can lead to hemheroids and fecal incontenance..uncontrolable pooping... ( forgive my spelling.. its late ).. its ok to do once and a while.. but if you abuse it.. you are going to have problems and probably stink the rest of your life... and who wants that?.... I have a medical background... so think carefully about what Im telling you... but again... my best sex and love was in highschool and early college... so.... thats my 2 cents worth.... for what its worth girl...