Sexual questions....

O.k. so I have a problem.  I am a sixteen year old female and I've never had sex before.  I'm quite proud of myself.  Anyway, the guy I'm with right now has had past experiences with the ladies so I am a little nervous about him and I doing anything sexual.  I love him with all of my heart but I feel like I won't be as good as the other girls he had.  I have talked about this with him before and he has told me that I have no need to worry about that but I can't help it.  Especially when he told me about how one of his old girlfriends swallowed after giving him a blow job, (which I could never do on account of me having a really sensitive stomach), [lol ahh...] and he loved it. 

My second concern is that..I'm really tight down there and I have tried to fit bigger things down there..like an inch wide down there but I literally can't for some reason.  Plus, it hurts a heck of a lot when I try.  I asked my old best friend if she ever had any problems with that and she said that a guy's dick is different when fitting into a girl so I figured that it'll be better when I have sex and I shouldn't need to worry so much.  Ahhhh, 

Don't know what to think about all of this..:\\\\ 

I'm just scared that I will have a lot of problems having sex when we do..yet I'm not..don't know..lol.  This is the exact reason as to why I need answers to my questions :P

 

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Femalesoldier
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If I were you, I would not risk getting infections or diseases, even with a protective cover.  You will not marry this guy.  He will not be your husband later when you finish college. Trust me.  He is just trying to get another notch in his belt.  Please, girlfriend, don't dare place your mouth there either, even with a protective cover.  You risk getting diseases. If you get them.  Your parents will be contacted, and they will know.  I wouldn't kiss this guy.  He's been with so many other girls, and how are they living.  Are they clean?  How many has he had?  If you lay down with this guy, you will be laying down with all of them.  Is anyone sick?  Do you know?  Keep your virginity and save it for the night when you are suppose to relinquish it -- on your wedding night with someone you'll really love.  That will not happen until you are around 24 and done with college.  Don't give him one darn thing.  Ya heard!
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Your boyfriend is sweet talking you into surrendering your virginity to him so that he can boast one more conquest. It may hurt but in perspective you will realize how fortunate you were to give him the heave ho. Enjoy your youth, go to dances and parties and don't try now to take on adult responsibilities that could fall on you by accident. You will soon meet someone worthy of you and not with one thing only on his mind. Believe me, when you are standing there in the marriage ceremony, you will be proud to have maintained good, healthy standards. Your fortunate husband will be one of a kind for you so much different from this so called boyfriend.

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Abstinence is best. Please wait until you mature some more and make sure the guy that you share your experience with is one  that you will really love.

Do not do something that you will soon regret. 
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OronD
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


This time I'll swim against the streem....  You received smart and honest answers but they all forgot that you fall in deep love with him ("with all my heart").... some think it's too early, I don't think so..... provided that you (both) are matured enough, love each other and do it under your free will and passion..... and you are aware to the consequenses (no way back).  True, you'll be exposed to deseases..... but in that way you'll have to find a guy that had never had a girlfriend..... on the other hand it means you'll have to protect yourself.  As per the poor sexual experience: If your boyfriend is experienced and considerative ask him to guid you and lead you to the pretty parts of that garden..... with your love you'll compensate of the poor experience and B4 2 long you'll be as experienced as anyone of his former girlfriends.   Now it's you to decide:  Do I really love him ? Do I really want to have sex with him ?  Is he the man to give him my virginity ? Am I aware to all the consequenses ? Am I properly protected ?  Will I regret ?.....  If you are satisfied with the answers, go for it...... I want to make it clear: I am not encouraging early sex (no no !) but life is stronger than the theory and when the time comes, and mother nature calls, and one knows what one is doing than OK.....
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Thrilling and enchanting experience is the best solution. You should go for it.
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