Sexual questions....

ok.........if u want a longstanding relation just dump this guy. or else try having a bit f xperience mayb ..........believe  me u ll do just fine .go ahead since this is ur 1 time . i had similar thoughts on my 1 sex. but it rockd.........read sum more on d subject

Oh honey if you want this boy to stick around for a while then dont have sex with him guys always want what they cant have.I was a virgin til i was 21 & i had the upmost respect from my boyfriends.Beleive me guys like the good girls when all is said & done. Dont do it!!!   Tami

1st of all, if I can put it in perspective of your age, your apparent motivation of having sex is not proper.  Hopefully, the sex act will come after you have loved this person, trust this person, and would like to share this act because of your attachment to him.  Secondly, always remember that pregnancy, diseases, infection, etc. can arise out of this act.  Thirdly, you are too young, and there are many things out there that you can entertain you and your boyfriend.  Lastly, trust is a critical element in any relationship.  You should never try to compete with any girl when it comes to your boyfriend, especially sex.  If your boyfriend introduces comparisons with past relationships, it is grounds for letting him go.  Again, you are too young.  Congratulations on going this far without sex, and I guarantee you that YOU CAN go longer without sex.  Try marriage first.  Don't believe the hype that all of your friends are having sex.  You have a precious gift, that a lot of guys are seeking, and that is your virginity.  Personally, I believe that, if he really loves you he would save the sex until after marriage.  Good luck, and I wish you the best!

Keep waiting, babe. I waited until age 22 and don't regret it at all.  The way he talks about his old girlfriend and blow jobs makes me nervous for you.  I hope he doesn't pressure you to do more than you'd want to on account of his "experience."  My boyfriend is more experienced than I am, but never talks about his previous girlfriends that way.

I'd be wary of this guy. If he's truly someone worth having sex with, he'll stick with you even if you're not giving it up to him.  I found that out first hand with a boyfriend a few years back. He was upset that I wouldn't sleep with him and I'm SO glad that I didn't.  He's a loser and I'm with a great guy now.  WELL worth the wait. 

Hi,

     You are so young and innocent.  Don't spoil your life by giving in to this man.  He is just going to count you as one of his conquests.  You need to enjoy your life, not with sex but enjoy your friends, develop a good hobby.  This is not the age to get sexually active.  You could get sexually transmitted diseases or get pregnant.  This will ruin your life.

You are not yet ready to be a mother just in case you'll get pregnant, wait awhile longer.  Your time will come when you are more emotionally mature.  You are physically mature for sex but you are still not ready for all responsibilities of parenthood.