Sexual questions....

If I were you, I would not risk getting infections or diseases, even with a protective cover.  You will not marry this guy.  He will not be your husband later when you finish college. Trust me.  He is just trying to get another notch in his belt.  Please, girlfriend, don't dare place your mouth there either, even with a protective cover.  You risk getting diseases. If you get them.  Your parents will be contacted, and they will know.  I wouldn't kiss this guy.  He's been with so many other girls, and how are they living.  Are they clean?  How many has he had?  If you lay down with this guy, you will be laying down with all of them.  Is anyone sick?  Do you know?  Keep your virginity and save it for the night when you are suppose to relinquish it -- on your wedding night with someone you'll really love.  That will not happen until you are around 24 and done with college.  Don't give him one darn thing.  Ya heard!

Your boyfriend is sweet talking you into surrendering your virginity to him so that he can boast one more conquest. It may hurt but in perspective you will realize how fortunate you were to give him the heave ho. Enjoy your youth, go to dances and parties and don't try now to take on adult responsibilities that could fall on you by accident. You will soon meet someone worthy of you and not with one thing only on his mind. Believe me, when you are standing there in the marriage ceremony, you will be proud to have maintained good, healthy standards. Your fortunate husband will be one of a kind for you so much different from this so called boyfriend.

Abstinence is best. Please wait until you mature some more and make sure the guy that you share your experience with is one  that you will really love.

Do not do something that you will soon regret. 

Hi,

Thrilling and enchanting experience is the best solution. You should go for it.

If you are scared,you'll tense up and that will make penetration 10 times more painful.All these questions...make me feel like your not ready for sex and this guy isn't the one to lose your virginity too.A quality guy doesn't tell a gal how much he loved it when his EX swallowed his cum.Ugh!This boy has no class.

I'm not trying to tell you to wait,I was 17 my first time and was the last of my circle of best friends to do it,so I understand the pressure and significance of being a virgin at such an age.I wish I could do my first time over.On a fouton in my much older boyfriends parents house,to the soundtrack of Star Wars Episode 2,is my memory of losing my virginity.Sad huh?It's true sex can be uncomfortable your first couple of times,but that's the least important thing about this moment in your life.Like Femalesoldier said,STD's and pregnancy are things to not only consider,but to research.I wish you all the luck but strongly urge you to wait for a quality guy,who loves you for more than your mad swallowing skills.

I am a lot older than you to be giving you advice at such a young age. All I can say is that the best sex and the best love of my life was when I was a teenager. We were animals..... His talk about swallowing was crude at best.. hes a moron... but truth be told.. its pure protein and its actually good for you. Its equivalent to one pork chop according to Oprah... as if her opinion mattered.....I hate that hobag...lol.

 Look...  we all know that people have sex at a much younger age... but I dont think I met one girl that didnt regret it except for the one that I dated all through high school... and yes... I was madly in love with her.. and she with me... but oats weren't sowed and I ... being a typical stupid kid... cheated on her.... Taking chances for both of us.  It's an adult decision for an adult pleasure that could ruin your life for many reasons. it also could be the best part of your life. This is going to sound stupid but I'd pray on wether he is your life long or just a crush that will cause you harm. There IS no right answer for this... its a decision. I remember one girl that saved her virginity for marriage ( which I think is a mistake because you may not be compatable... your stomache is just the beginning..to prove my point... but bet you like it later... ).... she was jealous of other girls that I was dating at the time and grabbed me by the hand and took ME up to lose her virginity. After she ran out of the room crying and never dated me again..... I was heart broken.... she even carried on the story that she was a virgin for years because some guy called me up and wanted to know the truth... I told him that was between her and I and if he didnt believe her that was a bad start... I wasnt gettting in the middle of this. I have regretted having doing it to this day (thought I care for her to this very day and wish I would have waited... then I probably would be married to her) and aside from the girl I dated for years ( yes I screwed up there too... I was a dumb guy).... I would have married her too...( this was after the break up ). How sad to find to women worth marrying and ruining them both for a piece of arse.... Its your decision..... take your time.... but I disagree about the waiting till marriage thing... it makes both parties wonder what they missed and will end in disaster for the marriage. I know that this didnt help much but at least it will let you think about things for a while untill you make up your own mind... and as far as the pain.. that will turn to pleasure... you might just be too small at the moment... give it time... and for Gods sake... one in five has herpes... as well as chylamidia which is unnoticeable but easily treated with antibiotics. It can give you cervical cancer too... Don't be scared.... be smart.... girls mature faster than boys.... so they will act a fool... and the girl above was right...hes gonna brag and probably distroy your reputation... but that's another story. Oh... anal sex can lead to hemheroids and fecal incontenance..uncontrolable pooping... ( forgive my spelling.. its late ).. its ok to do once and a while.. but if you abuse it.. you are going to have problems and probably stink the rest of your life... and who wants that?.... I have a medical background... so think carefully about what Im telling you... but again... my best sex and love was in highschool and early college... so.... thats my 2 cents worth.... for what its worth girl...

only you can decide what todo. if you feel you truly love him, and he truly loves you, then he wont care how "inexperienced" you are, he will love you all the same