Sexual Frustration

I think it's great that you've decided to wait. While you're in this "waiting period," try to be more active in other areas of your life. For example, try taking up speed walking or jogging or join a gym. Not only are you doing yourself a great thing by waiting but you're also keeping healthy. Try to avoid sweets and snacks when you are not actually hungry. If you're looking for things to do with this guy, try doing some active sports, like playing tennis or rollerblading or even bowling. This gives you more opportunity to really get to know this guy as well as have fun and get out some sexual frustration.

Good luck!

Years ago, before I married a guy, (we are currently not together) and decided to do as you are doing now.  We did not have sex until our honeymoon.  But it was an awful experience.  Before marriage, we connected and sometimes we would chat the nights away, and today we have remain friends.  I suggest, (as a manner of speaking), that you undergo a trial-period before you purchase the merchandise.  You could end up getting something to small or too big, and will eventually come full circle to asking us a question in this forum as to why you and your husband don't have sex?  It ended my marriage, so try it on for size, and have fun or simply enjoy the moment.

It's great you want to wait till you have an emotional connection but also try to define to yourself what it is you're waiting for. I wouldn't wait till you get married to have sex for the reasons Femalesoldier stated but waiting a bit could help your relationship become serious.

In the meantime, try to keep busy. It's really hard staying away from someone you want to be close to and I understand your difficulty. Try to do activities together that don't include hanging too much around the bed room to lower temptation. Besides that all I can say is hang in there.

The path you have selected is perhaps quite difficult but in the end will prove to be the best for many reasons. The classic advice for guys in your position is to take a cold shower. But I would suggest that you take up more physical activity like jogging or better still long, fast walking. These are activities that you can do together and if it ends up with a wedding these activities can continue together for many years.

I dont know how long you been dating this guy but I hope you are truly looking for signs that he is the right guy and not playing the control game with him because it could backfire. the old saying goes if you dont give it to him someone will. guys need sex too and sometimes it has nothing to do with if he loves you. i am not saying to rush into anything but what I am saying is the key is that you both communicate and be honest with each other. i think it is a good thing to wait but a lot of guys have a problem with being real emotional / affectionate and not having sex. it is harder for us to coudle and not try to have sex with you. i think waiting is good but even more important is to have safe sex with this guy if you do. For even when you think the time is right to have sex with him you may find out a year or two later that this guy is still not the right guy for you even if you been with him for years. So the more important thing is to have safe sex and not to have kids for years to come or you have no doubt that he is the one. Fallin in love with a bum is easy but falling out of love with a bum is much more difficult. 

I agree with the suggestions to exercise while being abstinent.  Not only would you feel better and too tired to be aroused but you would also look hotter for your man when the time comes.  (No pun intended)  May I make one comment?  If the picture you have for your profile is truly you, then I feel for the guy.  You are an incredible looking woman.  I think I would implode if I had to go out with you and know that I had to wait until who knows when.  But that would make me respect you and want you even more.  Nothing is sexier or more satisfying that having to earn the trust of someone you care about and then reaping the benefits of that time-built trust.  Good luck with your life and if it he turns out to be a jerk, well, add me as a contact.

i think waiting is a brilliant idea, but dont leave the wait too long. get to know him more and you will know he likes you for who you are. i did the same type of thing and i kept myself busy with goin out with my friends or little things like cleaning and pampering myself lol and i went on doin this and it was a year untill i decided i was ready and it was worth the wait. avoiding drink in these situations is a good idea as all it does is turn you on and make you feel sexy so best not to drink around ur partner or any man in that fact lol it is a risk waiting long amounts of time because you'r not sure wht to expect and how it will turn out.. could be the best thing in the world or could seem like a waste of time but its a gamble that only u can decide to take. and i wouldnt leave it till i got married because if its not all it seems you'r kinda stuck lol   xx

wtf.....are you getting horny when you are with him and stroking his cock? yeah?

well, then, those damp panties cannot possibly feel comfortable....so take them off and just tell him that if he doesn't put it in you right this minute, you'll ......well, use your imagination.

come on, sex is a game, it feels good, go for it