perhaps i should clairify, im 40 have two teenage daughters but this problem has been bothering me since my first child was born. at first i thought it was the horrible husband i choose so i left him three years ago ive met a wonderful man since and everything was fine until last summer my sex drive just dissapeared and ive been struggleing to get it back once again. its not like im a stranger to trying new fun things but nothing seems exciting any more ive tryed it all a time or ten and had lots of fun but it just seems like ist not fun any more. ill accept any ideas im open to all suggestions.