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why does my sex drive just about totaly dissapear and its so hard to find it again?


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Hi,


You didn't give any details (Gender, age, did it happend all of a sudden or gradually, partner, healt) so it's hard to answer.  However I'll give you a general answer.  Basically it's a matter of age (hormones, hormone balance).  Then comes: Health problems, psychological problems, bad relations with the partner, problems (economical, emotional, work, boss, business, parents, children.....).   The good news are that one can get it back ! (requires a proffesional guidance).  Good reason to smile ?
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im not totaly sure let me get back to you on it but i will find out some stuff for you


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perhaps i should clairify, im 40 have two teenage daughters but this problem has been bothering me since my first child was born. at first i thought it was the horrible husband i choose so i left him three years ago ive met a wonderful man since and everything was fine until last summer my sex drive just dissapeared and ive been struggleing to get it back once again. its not like im a stranger to trying new fun things but nothing seems exciting any more ive tryed it all a time or ten and had lots of fun but it just seems like ist not fun any more. ill accept any ideas im open to all suggestions.

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perhaps i should clairify, im 40 have two teenage daughters but this problem has been bothering me since my first child was born. at first i thought it was the horrible husband i choose so i left him three years ago ive met a wonderful man since and everything was fine until last summer my sex drive just dissapeared and ive been struggleing to get it back once again. its not like im a stranger to trying new fun things but nothing seems exciting any more ive tryed it all a time or ten and had lots of fun but it just seems like ist not fun any more. ill accept any ideas im open to all suggestions.

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ok well maybe what you could do is try new things with you partner or maybe try to even practice yourself and i would listen to orond on the rest but trying new things might spice up your drive


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