Sex Is Never About Just Sex..I Should Be Allowed To Sleep With Your Brother or Friend right?

To a man, sex is just about sex, unless someone wants to have sex with his property.

Fortunately, this does not apply to 100% of the men.

I can speak for women, but it would most likely be way off base.

Jay

It's a pride thing, and not limited to just men. I've known women like that, too. They can SAY sex is just sex, but they don't really believe it.

And they don't like someone messing in their territory because it makes them uncomfortably aware of how badly they're behaving. There's a difference between behaving like a sh*t, and behaving like a sh*t only to have a mirror held up to your face so you can't help but face facts.

That's when they'll get defensive.

To me Leona (I know you dont like me, but who does? Dont bother me!) Sex IS just sex! I dont know if you read a queston I posted about a month ago about my husband wanting oral sex, that I refused to give. We are no longer together, but before we broke up, I suggested that he go sleep with someone else. I offered him to get what he needed from another woman, because I know sex is what it is, sex. Whatever makes people jealous when their mate cheats or sleeps with someone else, I dont have it, and Im glad! As long as I know who I am, and I love ME, then I couldnt care less about what you do with your sexual organs, as long as they dont bring me AIDS etc. Which is why I made dude use a condom thoughout the whole marraige! Thats a whole oter story though! I dont think everybody feels like me who says sex is just sex, but when I say it I mean it!

To me sex is not just about the physical gratification.  There is more than that to it.  If I wanted to be gratified physically, I can get a Playboy, hit the bathroom, and be happy always.  I don't have sex with anybody for the hell of it.  I have got to feel some closeness, some chemistry with them before that ever happens.