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My parents are in their 80's and live in Fla. My sister is close by and takes care of them best she can. Personally I don't like ...

Posted by sweetiepie 21 days ago

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jkgrandma

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Turn off the television and teach your children how to think.

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I'm not quite clear on what you're asking, but here's what I think.

~ Take advantage of whatever time and opportunity you may have to spend time with your parents. They are in their 80's and may not be around much longer.

~ If your husband does not care to go, then go without him. There is nothing to keep the two of you from doing something apart, for a change. In fact, if your father and your husband don't get along then it is better not to throw them together if you don't have to.

~ Try not to neglect your home life while you focus on your parents. If your husband feels he is less important to you than your parents, it is likely to cause more discord and add more stress to your life. Do your best to reassure your husband that you still love him even though it may appear your priorities are elsewhere.

The bottom line is, don't neglect your parents but keep in mind you are now more than just their little girl. You have a husband and a family of your own to think of, too.

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jkgrandma, as usual, says it right and straight. I accept the fact that you don't like Florida but a two week stay twicrepetitive phrase e or three times a year is not so long especially when you know that you will soon return. The visit will give needed support to your sister and even a chance for a short vacation. She will know she is not alone and bearing the full burden. But more than anything else, as JKG puts it, "Take advantage of whatever time and opportunity you may have to spend time with your parents. They are in their 80's and may not be around much longer." And then you will never have the opportunity to speak to them, to ask them something and even to get a warm embrace. The two week periods will also make your husband feel that he is still No. 1 in your life. Go for those visits, you will never regret going, NEVER!!

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