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Second date with a person you aren't attracted to

Would you give a second chance to a person you dated once, and had fun with , but not sexually attracted to?

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When life presents a challenge, take your shot.

It's really up to you.  If you had a really wonderful time with him and felt like all you didn't like was his looks, then I would say why not... go on a second date, and maybe you'll realize that looks aren't the most important thing.  On the other hand, if things weren't incredible and you don't think he's attractive, then I'm sure there are other people who would be better for you.  I would try to put aside the looks and think about all the other qualities he had, and see if this is a person that you could see yourself with in the future.  If so, then try going out with him again.  Good luck.


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It's not the mountain we conquer... but ourselves

I agree with ElexaAnn... you have to decide what's important to you, looks, or everything else. 


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Neither you nor your date were in top form the first time so if you so much enjoyed his company you should certainly go out again and you might your date more attractive. Sometimes it takes a while. If not then at least you tried.


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Why wouldn't you be sexually attracted to someone if everything else about him is great? A passionate man is sexy. Period. (ok ok..may take some getting used to if he has a big hairy mole on his upper lip or something. lol)


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Personally, I would. I've done it and have found that the fun remained and the attraction developed. As long as you keep the door open for a getaway then what's the harm in a second date?


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Most of my long relationship started with me not being attracted to the person I was meeting, I don't know about you, but for me, it usually takes time to get an accurate impression of a person and for intimacy to start evolving. Sexual attraction is just one part in dating someone, also, quite a few people I wasn't really attracted to first turned out to be wonderful lovers who I learned to be attracted to after being in a sexual situation with.


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