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My sex life is boring. I am 24 and my husband is ...

My sex life is boring. I am 24 and my husband is 30 we are still young. My husband & i are close it's not like a intamcy problem. Although i am tired of tryin to spice things up just to be let down in a short short period of time what would you do???

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Hi,
At 24 and 30 you should still enjoy HOT healthy sex, get a marriage couseling or even meet a sexologist.  Meeting a sexologist doesn't mean you have sex problems, it also mean you want to improve your sex and enjoy it more.
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Well my sex life isnt completely bad it's just i never had an orgasim !!! I've came close only a few times & i've been married 4 7yrs. Its just im lossing interest only bcus im frustrated he is done in like 3 mins and most of the time he has to stop & wait so he wont finish. We tried all kinda stuff but really i only want him. I wonder if him not being circumsized is the problem ??? Any advice please sincerly, a desprate house wife!!!!  


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I'm a 30 year old man and I have been with my girlfriend for ten years.  We used to have sex all the time and everywhere.  In the past 3 years things have changed.  We never have sex and it's not her and it's not me, well, you decide.  She is getting older and has put on some weight.  I really hot girl is a turn on.  I got her a gym membership and I pay $240 a month for a personal trainer.  She does not go.  I'm a very sexual person but I'm not attracted to my girl anymore.  It may sound bad but younger, hotter and sexier girls are interested in me.  I think we are done.  It's sad.  Chris Rock said, "no matter how beautiful a woman is there's always a man that's tired of *having sex with her".  I still love her and that's the part that hurts the most.  Thoughts?


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Innocentthe best gift in life is life itself.

I wish i had a personal trainer i had given birth 2 my 2nd child last yr and i am still fighting my last stubborn 20lbs. But not every 1 likes to wrk.Out maybe if you tried to go w/ her she might find some motivation to go . I hope her gaining weight isn't the reason for splitting up after 10yrs. I know that a jelly bellies  isn't considered sexy to most average people. Don't just end your relationship over her apperence you've been w/ her for a long time there has to be somthing special about her. Find ways to rekindle u're lost love again look back and remember u're past how did u meet, what did u like about her,& the 1st time ya all made love things like that. It's hard for me to give u advice bcus all iknow is that she is overweight and you have a hard time havin sex w/ her bcus of it and it might be grounds 4 u calling it quits.


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I wrote this long letter to you and the stupid thing got lost.   Basically she pays for nothing because I've done well for myself.  I have two homes, my million dollar condo that we live in and my parents 7 bedroom house ten miles away.  My parents live over seas.  I gave her a $100,000 Mercedes.  She is well kept and taken care of.  We have been on more than 50 vacations.  Anything she wants she gets, including my respect.  All I'm asking her to do is go to the gym.  Her mom is heavy and she's going in that direction.  I don't want a fat wife or girlfriend.  I got her a gym membership and a personal trainer.  She doesn't use it and that money goes to waste every week.  Three times a week at $45 per session.  If she doesn't get the point soon than that will be the end of it.  I'm working hard to better my life and not stay stagnant.  I'm actually a very humble and kind person.  Talking here let's me vent. 


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