No there isn't. Porn is all about finding women that are so poor and desperate that they are willing to do anything for money, so why would you think there is anything better than trashy porn? Real men don't need porn. Only the stupid, emotionally immature guys that are really horrible in bed need porn. Porn makes men selfish, so if you have one that watches porn chances are good that he's pretty lazy in the bedroom. It says alot when a man (I mean boy) would rather take his hand than a real woman.