Romano, thanks for your honest answer.

I met her last night (I posted the question after we decided to meet) and it was nice. Not as much fun as we used to have together, but still nice.

Anyway, turns out that I won't be able to follow your advice, at least until September. We have a mutual friend who lives abroad and she'll come back for a long visit next week. I'm probably going to see both of the a lot this summer. We'll see where we end up.