Restrain love

My Point Is very logical. But to Elaborate, Who doesn't like a spontaneous relationship? If one was to get So wraped up into their relationship at the begining and not hold back their feelings, they could;

1. Get married in the future and possibly get tired out due to the High expectations that the mate was so used to during courtship.

2. Be Blinded through Infatuation and not realize that love takes time.

3. "Squeeze the soap so hard it slips through your hands." It could lead to truely Loving the person so much that they push you away.

Plain and simple- Do not Lie to your partner do not Hide who you are to your partner. Use Relationship Forsight there will be problems!

By keeping your relationship spontaneous And not outright "Lovey Dovey" ALL THE TIME, that will open the door for that special moment in the future, the moment that counts. This moment will make that person fall more in love. That moment will be more special because of holding back. Because of restraining oneself at the beginning of the relationship.

Do you understand?

No i don't understand, i think what you are saying is backward. If you let somone know how you feel and they return the feeling then thing are more comfortable and you can be yourselves avoiding the relationship trap you talk about in #1and2. And if you show somone that you truely love them and then they push you away they are not the one for you. Your feelings obviously don't match, so let that person go. Also always letting somone know that they are loved does not inable you to do spontanious things and it does not take away from the spontiniaty or romance of those things.

This has worked for me, I am happily married! for almost 2 years!  I know that in any instance if someone Ultimately believes in their love, their decisions and their trust they can be happy. If you and your wife/husband/mate, have disagreements, just maybe you should rethink your decisions, the way you act or your lifestyle. Its worked for me. So why tell someone that there way is wrong? that is how alot of Relationships fail!

I have no idea what you are talking about.

Jacoba, has any of this helped you? What do you think?

dude, i feel that it IS better at the beginning to h