Restrain love

Yes.  At least that's how I want a guy to be with me.  I think girls are way more attracted to a guy who plays a little hard to get.  I mean, still be nice and like her a whole lot, but don't come on too hard.  I hate when I like a guy at first, and then he's instantly trying to hang out all the time, and then I am turned off a little.

crooster and catlady...why. If you like the guy why does it turn you off that he likes you?

Hate to be sexist but a man should express his feelings because they seldom do.  A woman might want to hold back at first because men, not usually being the emotive type, may not want to hear all of her feelings or may not even listen.

YES unless you want to scare the other person away. Save the sap for later on down the road when it actually means something because you've been together for more than a week.

No, it is not good to restrain yourself...

When you and your partner are performing sexual intercourse, you just go out there and fully express yourself. After all, this is a women's who's sexually arroused you; take that erection and have some fun. If you hold back, your partner might think that you're not enjoying yourself, and will become more reserved herself in turn. Wearing a comdom during sex is, of course, medically advised, but if it interferes with your sexual enjoyment, don't hesitate to not wear it. After all, 64% of women interviewed preferred condom-less sex. Another topic, of course, if circumcision. If you're not alreay cut, it is highly advised to do so, as 96% of women interviewed perfer sex with cut males than uncut. And don't forget the sex toys! One last thing: Viagra. Use it. It's as simple as that. Even if you're confident in your erection, it can always fail you, so better safe that sorry, I say.

I believe that this entirely depends on the other person - some admire when a person wears their heart on their sleeve, others can be taken aback or feel overwhelmed by too many emotions, too early. It's smart to get a sense for what the other person is feeling, but also decide how much you want to reveal about yourself - being more open about your feelings also increases your vulnerability. Let me just vouch that it's important to be honest from the get go (about yourself, what you're looking for etc ), but there is a smarter way to manage your emotions.