I been knowing this girl (Angela) for 8yrs, we got ...

I been knowing this girl (Angela) for 8yrs, we got introduced when I we were in the 9th grade through my best friend at the time which was her boyfriend(Kevin) I had a secret crush on her. When I got into the 11th grade me and my best friend(Kevin) got into a fight and never seen him again after that, eventually the two had broke up...(FAST FORWARD)

 

I'm now 22 going on 23 and I seen Angela in a night club in November we exchange #'s and texted each other for awhile then we stop. We started back up calling each other in January and we started hanging out now we're getting close and having sex and ect.

 

The problem is I have a good friend(Ronnie) who have 3 friends. His best friend (Chase), Co-worker (Ben), Casual friend (Robert). They all 3 had sex with Angela in the past before me, I use to workout with Robert (but we're no way near close or I don't call him or hang out) I'm somewhat friends with Chase (Wouldn't call him or ever stop by his house or anything we're not close) and I know of my good friend Ronnie Co-worker Ben.

 

Is the past the past ? Should I be worried about it? They all had relations with Angela on different occasions not knowing. I really like Angela I'm really feeling her what should I do help me please!


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Move on...Your young and there are many other fish in the ocean.  I know it hurts now but later in life you will be thankful you moved on.   

Posted 2009-02-28T18:15:13Z
 
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 Be honest and be true to yourself.

Hi Snake,

   I think you should forget about her past.  As long as you and her are getting along and she's not cheating on you,  I think that's OK.  When those things happened, she was not your girlfriend.  So be thankful she has chosen you.

Take care.

Posted 2009-03-01T06:01:02Z
 
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Hi Snake ,  Seems I keep receiving your questions .  Ok first is this Angela your one night stand ( without protection ) or is she the GF you recently broke up with believe you called her a total slut , that we talked about ,or none of the above ?  You are not going to like this . BUT seems to me that this Girl sleeps around or gets passed around between friends . SORRY !  But that's how I see this .  So I guess it all depends on what you are looking for in a girl .  I am with Bellamia ( 2 thumbs up ) move on .

Posted 2009-03-01T18:00:49Z
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Equus, Angela is niether......I found out yesterday that Chase actually never did sleep with Angela. So it's basically two people that doesn't know each other.

And I'm sorry my life would be so much happier and easier if I didn't have so much relationships problems.

Posted 2009-03-01T18:35:55Z
 
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Hi Snake , Don't be sorry , we live and hopefully learn . You are 22 years old don't be so hard on yourself . Think about this for me , maybe just maybe you need to rethink where and how you are meeting these types of girls , that are giving you nothing but problems .  There's a girl out there for you that will fall in love with you , that will make you happy not crazy like all of these have done in the past .  I hope you find her , she's also looking for you .  I wish you Peace & Happiness my Friend .

Posted 2009-03-01T19:13:57Z
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Based on my experiences, and I'm 46 yrs old, I can tell you, that past relationships are just that, 'past'.  And if you don't want any of her past relationships to be a problem in your current relationship, then don't bring their name into it. They can only become an issue, if you bring them up.

Just like, you wouldn't want Angela to have a problem w/your past relations.

I would just apply the Golden rule, and don't say or do anything that you wouldn't want her to do to or say, if you were in her shoes. Just ask yourself, if you had been the one, and you had slept w/her friends or ppl she knew before you, how would you want her to handle it? I'm sure you would hope that it wouldn't be problem.

Your relationship w/Angela is YOURS, and needs to be kept between the two of you. If the subject ever does come up, tell your friend(s), you don't want to hear about it, and if they ask questions, tell them you love ler, and if they ask to know anything else, tell them you're not gonna talk about Angela behind her back. If Angela herself brings it up, I wouldn't let her know, that you already know, Just listen and support her if wants to talk,

Better yet, it's never good to discuss past relationships w/current relationship, people remember what you say, and sometimes it gets brought up during an arguement, or they might think you'll do the same things to them, and misjudge you.

It's better to keep details to yourself, ATLEAST until you've been with a person for enough years that you know, that they won't throw it back in your face later. (And believe me, it takes years to form this kind of trust) ESPECIALLY, when you both know the same people, Alls it does is create doubts, fears, and jealousy.

Posted 2009-03-01T20:54:02Z
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You recieved some great advice & opinions from all..I'll just add my 2 cents. The past is the past. That's where it should stay..don't bring it up. We can't change the past..wish we could sometimes. All we can do is learn from our past mistakes & try not to repeat them. Maybe she's done sleeping around & will dedicate herself to you..or maybe you will just end up being one of the many. Only time will tell, but you shouldn't let her past stand in the way of having a relationship with her. If you really like her you should give her a chance and see if things work out.

Posted 2009-03-03T20:16:13Z

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