What to do? I dunno how to phrase it so let me just break it down like this:
My bestfriend lets call her Clari, is pregnant shes still in the first trimester.... she had the fortune to believe herself "in love" with a guy that is "separated" from his wife (the lady still lives with him)... the reason for the "separation" is that they added another female to their marriage and it sorta broke them up because he developed feelings for this female... for whatever reason this 3some broke up... and he was caught with feelings for Clari and the mistress ... he has a child by the wife.. and Clari is being naive.. and is having my brother say its their child so that the wife wont divorce him on grounds of adultery and get custody of the child... heres the issue if this isnt problem enough...she told him she was pregnant he's cool with it and acts like an excited friend around others, when she talks to him and hes alone.. he for lack of a better word tells her he loves her and the kid shes carrying... but then as soon as she turned her back he got involved with his ex mistress and is now in a relationship with her... heres the kicker the now girlfriend might be pregnant too... his wife doesnt know about clari's baby being his... but theres no way to hide the girlfriends kid... not only that clari's been giving him fnancial support and im starting to think its not bills that hes taking the new girlfriend out with clari's money.... Shes my best friend i love her dearly... im just confused i dont know how to advice her.. its not my field and well honestly i dont know what to think about any of this...
so please men and women advise me, what can i say? maybe someone can help me understand what the hell is going on? not only because im not quite grasping the situation but because she's getting ready to relocate and i think this man isnt the right road... i think he's just using her!!!
