Thumbs up OronD & Asha ! This woman is being unfaithful to her husband by committing adultery with you . So even if she would leave her husband for you , do you really want her . Could you ever trust her not to do the same to you . Probably not . Is this the same woman , your question of a month ago was about , the older woman ? You should have NEVER gotten in to this relationship built on lies and dishonesty . But since you have . Real simple if she in not happy in her marriage , isn't in love with her husband and loves you then she will get a divorce . Are you sure her husband is aware of her infidelity . Are you sure she just isn't using you for sex , wants her cake and eat it to . Are you sure you are the only one she is committing adultery with . 99.9% of men would not like their partner to engage in sex with other men . There's more to this story , someone is with holding information . I do know in the state of your current situation , you are headed for heartache , pain and sorrow and the possibility of an encounter with a jealous , enraged husband , which is never a good thing to say the least . If memory serves me correctly you have been in prison , this relationship is a bad situation for you all the way around .