Relationships

My first thought to your question is why are they Married? She obviously doesn't really love him, or does he love her. Honestly. If she were your wife would you be alright with her making love... or having sex with other men? Something is very wrong there.

You should ask her if she is truly happy in her Marriage with her Husband... and I use the word husband losely. If you can tell she is sad, ask her if she would consider leaving him for a more meaningful/personal relationship with you. Tell her that you love her and think she deserves better... if in fact that is how you feel.

you really did'nt give enough information about the type of open marriage,or about yourself either , open marriages can cover alot of area ? maybe he gets off on her telling him about you, or maybe he thinks he can have you too, ect better watch yourself in this one, open is a wide area,  open wide , wide open, get it , like i said not enough facts to give any help on ok bye good luck

Hi, ------ You entered a trap and now being in it you ask for advise. It is clear that you shouldn't have entered that "trap" in the first place. However you are in and need advise: The best option for you will be to find out if she loves you too. If the answer is possitive than the next questions are: Are you ready to mary her ? Are you sure she will be faithfull to you ? Will she be ready to divorce her husband and marry you ? Do you think you'll make a nice family. If ALL answers are "yes", go for it. Else, move on, you are in an unhealthy relations that w3ill only break your heart. I bet it "kills" you to know that after being with you she goes to her husband and has sex with him..... I know it is easier to say it than to do it (after all you love her) but you have to realize that this relation will bring you only heart pains and a lot of troubles. Sorry !. ----------- Best regards,

Thumbs up OronD & Asha ! This woman is being unfaithful to her husband by committing adultery with you . So even if she would leave her husband for you , do you really want her . Could you ever trust her not to do the same to you . Probably not . Is this the same woman , your question of a month ago was about , the older woman ? You should have NEVER gotten in to this relationship built on lies and dishonesty . But since you have . Real simple if she in not happy in her marriage , isn't in love with her husband and loves you then she will get a divorce . Are you sure her husband is aware of her infidelity . Are you sure she just isn't using you for sex , wants her cake and eat it to . Are you sure you are the only one she is committing adultery with . 99.9% of men would not like their partner to engage in sex with other men . There's more to this story , someone is with holding information . I do know in the state of your current situation , you are headed for heartache , pain and sorrow and the possibility of an encounter with a jealous , enraged husband , which is never a good thing to say the least . If memory serves me correctly you have been in prison , this relationship is a bad situation for you all the way around .