I've tried it once and yes I would try it again. My first marriage only lasted about a year I don't put all the blame on him. I married him for the wrong reasons. He needed a mother not a wife. He wanted me to support him and he was living with another woman before we were ever divorced. I pray God forgives me for that mistake. I've learned alot. I've grown up and would love to do it again. I enjoyed being married just married the wrong one. Marriage isn't perfect. anyone who says it is, is lying or has amnesia. Its work. A near perfect marriage is a marriage that the good times out weight the bad times. It also means loveing each other depsite the faults that you have, never go to bed angry, and never withholding sex because of angry feelings. It takes both sides working to improve and maintain the realationship daily. Love doesn't stay angry and love isn't jelous. Trust is important in a marriage and it is easily broken, but if you choose to forgive then you must also FORGET. You should always treat each other as if you are the best thing that has ever happen to each other. You are stronger together than you are apart. Pick your fights wisely, hurt feelings can be hard to mend. And my personal fav. Never raise your voice in anger. you are equal you don't have to pound each other in the ground by trying to see who can get the loudest and meanest. Never fall for the myth of a perfect marriage, you only set yourself up for a disappointment.
oh and don't marry the one you can live with marry the one you can't live with out.
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God Bless
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Shannonr1179,
Your words are beautiful and spoken with eloquence. Anger when expressed in a healthy manner, should be released a little at a time. There will always be some frustrations living with another person, but it is important to express them a little at a time so it doesn't become a time-bomb waiting to explode.
And I love this, "don't marry the one you can live with marry the one you can't live with out!"
Blessings,
~ nmpb ~
Thankyou ! God bless
