Y r relationships so complicated sometimes ...

That's just the way things go sometimes.  If everyone had a relationship that was so easy no one would have any character because no one would eve have to deal with struggles.  It's just like saying, why can't I always get what I want out of life.  Relationships are meant to be hard work and when you find the right person it is more than worth it!

Relationships don't always have to be complicated. We as individuals make them complicated when we don't know how to fight fairly. I'd suggest reading Conflict Resolution as it offers some interesting insight into some of the most basic answers to our relationship complications.

...because you are not an amoeba.

If they werent complicated i dont think we would be as drawn to them.

If you have to work hard for something you enjoy it more.

Life isnt easy.
Things almost never go how we "imagined"
Sometimes better or worse, Boys are hard to understand but they say the same thing about us girls, That is why being comitted to one person is soo hard and serious. You have to care about them and want good things for them before you want stuff for yourself. Im not saying your doing everything wrong by the way i was just saying that in a nutshell, everyone has their ups and downs and it is weather this certain someone means enough to you, that you want to go through thick and thin with them, I hope i helped!

There is nothing easy in this world.  Relationships are always a challenge.

Just have to accept it.  Even relationships with brothers and sisters could be difficult.